Word on the streets are saying that the 38 year old Muslim rapper/actor Mos Def is a bigamist. Because Mos Def recently got married again to some chic in California, and his wife estranged wife Alana Wyatt couldn’t believe it when she heard the news. This is not the first time reports have surfaced that Mos Def has allegedly been married to multiple women at the same time. Wyatt, who exchanged vows with the rapper after 96 hours, married him when he was married to someone else, Wyatt was furious when she learned the news but remained with the rapper. Now it appears she’s had enough.
In an open letter to Diary of A Hip Hop Street King, Wyatt gives details about their marriage. She talks about being spit on regularly before sex, his jealousy and her disappointment with Mos Def’s alleged bigamy.
I am the CURRENT WIFE (LEGAL) wife of Dante Smith. Aka Mos def aka Yasin bey! Who knows maybe next year it will be something different according to HIS mood at that day and time. Just so everyone who is paying attention it is clear that no matter what I may have been called, portrayed as because of a few videos and have dated a few athletes. I took his hand in marriage based on a promising life, future, and one day to build an empire of own. I don’t regret one minute of it. I never will. I made that choice for myself.
Until now…… Marriage is NOT something you should take in vain, it’s not something that 2 people consummate just because it suits the mood at the time. The man I married is NOT the man I grew to know. Shit I barely ever did get to know him. It seemed as tho we only knew each other when the world was watching. Did we ever live the marriage life? NO! Did we have a chance to really love each other for who we were? NO!
Even after 10 years of being with someone you STILL don’t know them. So most will say “then 3 days you really never knew each other.” Agreed!
But that’s what comes with marriage. Getting to each others likes and dislikes, and getting to know each other does NOT mean just getting along, or the only time you can make love with the lights on is when you are tipsy. The man mos def aka yasin bey, I married was NOT who I grew to know, I’m sure he can say the same. It was the first time I had ever experienced sex with my mouth being forced open and him feeling the need to spit in it 3 times. He would tell me what it meant, but I just could not wrap my mind around it. Each time he did it again and again, and again. This became our routine. It became real to me.
Dante (mos) is GOOD! He has a way of making you feel like you are the ONLY woman that exists. So I can see how it is easy to fall in love with him. I’ve been asked. Allot is he as weird in real life as in on TV! “Define weird”. I say. U lose yourself in him. Hence the so many marriages. I never understood having multiple wives. Multiple jump offs…..YA, but WIVE(S). Helllll Nooooo! Was this legal? Allowed? Or how did the wives feel?!
Which brings me to the CURRENT! I am still his legal wife. Last name, license, certificate and all. I’m sure some DNA also if ya dug deep enuff. I been respectful of his privacy, as well as NOT accepted the MANY MANY offers that have risen over the course of our “ongoing” divorce to throw his trifling ass under a bus. Well I’m DONE! Being quiet, DONE protecting myself for his stupid antics. How dare you NOT settle your MESS here in Toronto (Canada) have my ass out here married to someone I barely know, can’t move on, but yet … “OH”. Here ur ass is trynna marry some one else. AGAIN! Is this a fad or a joke to you?!?! I am disgusted, ashamed, and embarrassed. Not for me, baby boo…….but YOU! Running around marrying what suits your outfit that day.
I am NOT jealous, I’m fucking PISSED that he wouldn’t clean up shop before he runs off in the sunset for the 45th time. I have to wonder……….not even Santa Claus gets as many letters in November as Mos has wives.
I been quiet, respectful for the reason of his family and career, in 5 years I have NOT used or abused his name, nor used him to brand anything. But Now I have to speak up, when he is out there trying to get married AGAIN , clean tha FUCK UP what u already got going on HERE, I
I am NOT jealous (for the record), in fact I actually pity the “NEXT TOP WIFE” I could give a rats flying fuck if you married 8 hermaphrodites, just fix your dam mess with me and let me move on!!! I may have had my share of “fun”. But dam…. no rings are poppin off and tatts (GOD KNOWS WHAT ELSE) “ya CUM QUICK”.
Gumbumpers, do you agree with his wife??