Melyssa Ford gave it to Essence Magazine, she’s far from being shy either. she thinks they have lost touch with black women by hiring a white Editor. She uses the latest magazine with Boris Kodjoe, Blair Underwood and Lance Gross on the cover with a subtle note to Black women that there are certain things they need to do in order for their man not to cheat. Essence has 3 sexy men ever created on the face of this fucking Earth. They have Blair Underwood who has always done it for me, Boris Kodjoe whose definition in the dictionary is fine, and then they got Lance Gross—chocolatey loveliness. And you know what they fucking have the nerve to have as the fucking title of the cover story? “How To Keep Black Men Happy and Faithful.” And faithful! How dare you?! It makes me fucking sick. [It’s like saying] ‘Women take note—how to keep your black men healthy and keep from straying from you ‘cause it’s your fault.’ And black women wrote this to their fucking counterparts. As if to say, ‘If he strays, it’s your fucking fault. You didn’t cook enough. You didn’t blow him enough. You didn’t fuck him enough. You didn’t do enough to keep your fucking man healthy or faithful.’ O-M-fucking-G!
I do see Melyssa’s point, seems like Essence has jumped on mainstream bandwagon, she goes on to say:
“There are times where I’m surprised at the audacity that they f*cking have to put something like that on the cover, but they’re regarded as the soul sista’s bible. They accept a f*cking elitist attitude on who they’ll have on the cover and who they won’t? Please. Who was on the cover last month? They were toasting to women above the age of 40, and how beautiful they look, but Naomi’s on the cover? Okay, yes. Granted, Miss Naomi walks a catwalk, and she’s still killing 16-year-old and 20-year-old girls. Yes, but she has serious anger management issues and an overwhelming sense of entitlement, and she is engaged in f*cking illegal activity that’s directly related to the blood diamond industry in Africa. And you’re putting her on a pedestal? Is that what you’re doing? But you won’t cover somebody like me because I based the earlier part of my career on my sexuality? My moral compass hasn’t been shifted off too much. My values are pretty good considering the causes that I believe in and places I’ve volunteered my time and given my money to, but you don’t feel the need to ever cover any single part of my career. You don’t even acknowledge that I even f*cking exist. But this is what you cover and this is the thing you say? I think it’s hypocrisy.”